Older Women and Sex

The majority of older women are pretty happy with their sex lives, a new study says

Getting older shouldn't mean giving up sexSource: Getty

Getting older shouldn't mean giving up sex

A satisfying sex life is an important factor in personal happiness – whether you are 25 or 75. But too often midlifers feel that their happiest days are behind them. Many midlife women in particular worry that the loss of estrogen at menopause will shut down their libido.

In fact, in studies I looked at for The Menopause Book, one of the most common reasons that midlife women failed to have a satisfying sex life was lack of a partner. In other words, the will was still there. They just had to find a way.

Now, a new study using data from the Women's Health Initiative (the massive federally sponsored study of hormone therapy among other things) has found that older women are generally pretty satisfied with their sexual health.

Published in the journal Menopause, the review of data from more than 27,000 women from age 50 to 79 found that 60 percent of women in their 50s were sexually active, along with almost 50 percent of women in their 60s and more than a quarter of women in their 70s.

Two-thirds of women said they were satisfied with their sex life and the majority of those who were dissatisfied said they would prefer to have more sex.

It's more evidence that getting older doesn't mean you have to fade away.

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Iamnotmeanymore | Aug 23, 2012
What about the rest of us? Women who used to love sex but after menopause are no longer intereste. When I do have sex with my husband, it is very painful, even when using lubricant. So painful that I no longer enjoy sex. I cannot use hormone treatments because of recent breast cancer and almost every time I have intercourse, I get a bladder infection in spite of taking a post intercourse antibiotic. I have talked to several doctors about it but they just suggest lubricants and antibiotics. I hate it for me and my poor husband. And just for the record, I love my husband and we have a great relationship so we cannot blame it on some psychological underling issue. I hate feeling like my sex life is doomed. Please help — I have lost myself and I miss the old me. I am not me anymore!
Anonymous | Nov 15, 2011
im nearing my mid 40"s and i enjoy sex with my partner now more then i did when i was younger. yeah i agree sometimes its not often enough but some things are unavoidable.
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